Here’s an update from the person who wrote in over a year ago asking about what kind of marriage partner would be suitable for her. All previous letter writers are welcome to send updates, which I will publish more or less as I receive them. This one was received a few months ago.

New questions are also welcome. Questions from those who’ve never submitted before have priority, but previous letter writers are welcome to submit new questions if it’s been at least a year since their previous one and they’ve provided an update.

I became a certified attorney in November 2020, and found an apartment of my own in January 2021. Covid-19 and the major earthquakes in my country shook me. We had one in March and a lot of them in December (interestingly, most of them happened at 6:29 am). The strongest one caused damage to the walls of my parents’ apartment.

 I think that my relationship house is somewhat active all the time in my life, as I have met a lot of guys despite Covid-19. I would say they were evolved Mercury types in some way: older than me and more mature, except that they have still not evolved a wish to have someone serious and do not want a serious relationship. 

 It is interesting that all of them have Mercury in Virgo, and almost all of them were Leos.

 So I have been kind of depressed, because I am questioning myself now, why did nothing happen with anyone with them and what is wrong with me still that I can't find someone that will commit. I have started to think that maybe they see me as a party girl, only for going out, maybe I am presenting myself wrong.

 In November, I met a guy who I actually fell in love with, and I think that on his side it was the same, but he kind of disappeared quickly, after 3 weeks (he has some problems with letting go of old relationships), and I was very sad because of that.

 Hope to find someone soon, maybe in this year, but with no problems with commitment and no problems with being open.

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